Advice For Newbie Crossdressers I

A big HI! to those of you new to the world of crossdressing =) Welcome to this fun lifestyle and i hope you're here to stay. I'm sure you might be dealing with alot of mixed thoughts & feelings and probably alot of questions but know that you are not alone and hopefully you will find most of the answers you're looking for in this post. If not then feel free to ask me anything at princess_andria@cutey.com x

So you've crossdressed in some way shape or form, if this has been going on for quite some time more then likely it's not going anywhere anytime soon, so there's no point trying to deny this side of you (believe me I've tried), it's part of you and instead of trying to push it away, embrace it.

Are you gay?...

I don't know, are you? lol crossdressing has no say in your sexual orientation.

(Most crossdressers are heterosexual).

Is there something wrong with you?...

Well, there could be (just playing lol), but as far as wearing girls clothes no =P

 Should you keep it to yourself?...

That's entirely up to you, if you decide to do that then that's fine, but over time it may become hard as you might want to express yourself to others. (have a look at my 'Ways To Tell Her' post).

Why are you like this/Why do you do this?...

Majority of the time crossdressing starts in the early teen years. Your body is going through alot of different changes and this is usually the time in ones' life where they experiment and find out their true self. Why are you this way? Things through childhood could've triggered these feelings, so many things could have had an impact. Who knows, it could've been preset in our genetic makeup (now i bet you're thinking of cosmetics =P)

Does this mean you were born in the wrong body?

Chances are no you were not. If this has just kicked in through teens you are most likely a crossdresser. Those who feel as though they are born the wrong gender are not crossdressers, they are transexuals and have come to realise this much earlier on in their life.

Links To Volume II & III

http://princess-andria.blogspot.com/2012/03/advice-for-newbie-crossdressers-ii.html

http://princess-andria.blogspot.com/2012/03/advice-for-newbie-crossdressers-iii.html